Growing up/growing old

It's the mid autumn festival :)
Happy happy ones to all! ( not as if everyone celebrates it )

see, i thought it was a u know, gathering kind of thing. watch the moon and slice the moonies.
BUT
LJ has plans
NJ has hotel pleasures
ABMJ are home-ing
SS no answers
VJ went walkathon at Clarke Quay ourselves , after three cups of over sweetened cookies and cream at Gloria Jeans , very very sick and tired of their beverages, and then thai dinner at a posh restaurant. Then walked at Clarke Quay , fish eyed and lomo around, till we got sick and tired of the smell of SLEAZE in the air, smelt a little oily, but nah, it was too crowded, if any oilypotLJface was to appear, it will become a ghost town. Ok, that's a side-dish thought.

I was just wondering, u know. As we advanced into our lives, are we growing up , or are we just growing older? No longer enthusiastic about stuff that we once did. Like u know, just random hanging out and impromptu plans. Now everyone has new friends, like school friends, outing friends, drinking friends, gossip friends, work colleagues....... the group no longer prioritize. At first it was just CX and now, am I thinking too much? Perhaps. Maybe I haven officially step out into my working life, fresh grad with not much experience to boost. But, I am suddenly wondering will we just end up having to drink at ktv pubs everytime we meet, or just coffee-ing at some random place. Eh, actually that's all Singapore can offer. We either fine dine and fine drink at some fine bar, or just casual out at the usual places. Like occasions, festivals, we no longer give one thought about gatherings, I bet this year Christmas, count down, we'll just celebrate separately, and ss in Taiwan and all. Like I said, I want to learn pole dancing ( yes, laugh all you want :)) I really want to.. but LJ looks at me as if I have three heads, AB looks at me and says I'm going yoga-ing with Meow, and V says, it's totally out of my league. Ok lor, I told V , fine i'll go learn myself, since no one will accompany me. V says i'm indulging in self pity : which pisses me off a lot. I'm not. It's the fact. I cant force ppl to do what I like, so i'll do it myself. Maybe Joey can go pole dancing with me. I mean vice versa..

Maybe too much lemongrass with caffeine made me think differently, maybe what I studied make me someone else, maybe I am still wanting to have fun. Maybe when I start working, I will finally know what's making everyone else busy and lethargic and different from me. Ya. I'm just having thoughts out loud.

i'm not blaming anyone and if i've offended anyone, i'm sorry. But this is how I voice my thoughts out ya. no offence.



--- May the force be with everyone that I love,not meeting often but stay healthy and happy. May the oil still stay with oilpottrannylyface. :X